Above all else, never, ever use the line, "If you loved me you would...".Showing maturity will surely catch her eye, and immaturity will just as quickly turn her off.There is a need to be assertive and state what you want with confidence.Ask her out with confidence and make her know that you are with her.This combination of confident body language and eye contact will get her to see that you’re the kind of powerful, self-assured man older women like.Unlike a lot of younger women who are still exploring the dating world, older women have a much stronger idea of what they want.Women state they were attracted to younger men because of the spontaneity and adventurous lifestyle. An older woman does not like and cannot stand, immature attitudes. There are different aspects of maturity and they have nothing to do with age.Men preferred older women because of their intelligence, stable careers, and bedroom expertise. You have to know who she is and respect her for it. Research the issues that prevailed during her high school years, what songs were popular, what shows were on television, what movies played at the theater. Is she willing to try different shampoos, soaps, sexual positions? I've known a few 20-year-old guys that were more mature than some 40-year-old men. It is fine to like pop rock, dippin' sticks, and comic books. What she won't put up with is childish game playing.
The word "older" for the purpose of the study is defined as a 10-year age difference.
Stand up straight and keep your movements controlled and purposeful (avoid fidgeting).
When you make eye contact, show confidence by holding her gaze (let her look away first).
Now while older women are often interested in (or at least open to) dating younger men, that doesn’t mean they’re interested in dating “boys”.
They want strong, powerful men and you’ve got to show her you’re that kind of man – who just happens to be a bit younger. You can start with strong, confident body language and eye contact.